Put Out the Blame Flame

Put Out the Blame Flame

Blame is something that starts very early in life. We quickly learn that taking credit for things that result in reward feels good while being blamed results in punishment and feels bad. The problem is that blame doesn’t fix anything. It may temporarily and in a...
Dancing In The Rain

Dancing In The Rain

It’s raining as I write this, and the soft pitter-patter drummed up the following Vivian Greene quote: “Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass; it’s about learning to dance in the rain.” Despite the popularity of the quote, how many people do you know who...
What’s Your Story?

What’s Your Story?

Without realizing it, our connections to people often come through participation in each other’s stories or scripts. If you have a fix-it personality, you tend to connect with individuals who create drama or take part in a victim approach to life – and vice versa. If...